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Gratitude for Our Clergy

Leaving Church: A Memoir of Faith, by Barbara Brown Taylor
Leaving Church: A Memoir of Faith, by Barbara Brown Taylor

Hello, HPPR Book Club members. My name is Andrea Elise and I live in Amarillo, TX.

I just finished reading Barbara Brown Taylor’s extraordinary memoir, Leaving Church: A Memoir of Faith.

Despite being raised in a strict religious, church-going home (I even lived with Incarnate Word nuns in San Antonio my junior year in high school.) I had no idea how difficult it is to be a member of the clergy.

I knew that the calling included the ability to bring God to a congregation in a fresh way, offer solace to those in need, rejoice together in happy times and find the perfect words of comfort for people who grieved.

Never could I imagine, though, the multitude of other tasks involved in the ministry, or the exhaustion of non-stop commitments. And it never occurred to me how lonely the job could be at times.

In her memoir, Barbara outlines her journey, describing herself as somewhat of “an ecclesiastical harlot” in the early days, as she fervently searched for which religious ideology mirrored her heart’s and soul’s desire to serve God.

Barbara found the right path for her, and she found that one of the important lessons she learned as an Episcopalian priest early along is that it is not only fruitless, but also destructive to take things personally. A favorite bishop reminded her that “the people who love you don’t love you as much as you think they [do].”

She soldiered on for 20 years as a priest and rector at Grace-Calvary in the rural area of Clarkesville, Georgia, baptizing infants and grown-ups, presiding over marriages, taking prayer requests, laying to rest those who died and all other events and needs in between. She loved her job until it stopped loving her back.

She explained that since she had been “drawn to care for hurt things, [she] ended up with compassion fatigue.”

Shortly after she left the ministry, Barbara realized the loss of many of the perks of being a priest. Like so many women of a certain age, she became invisible. Without her collar, she was often ignored by service people who waited on men before her. Her identity was gone and she had yet to find a new one.

No longer a part of the clergy, she had forgotten that the life of faith is not always the same as life in the Church itself. With that, she reminds us that the word “liturgy” means “the work of the people.”

It took her about 6 months to experience an illumination of all things surrounding her: people, plants, animals, all of God’s creation.

To quote her realization, at least partially: “The whole purpose … it seems to me, is to convince people to set the written word down in order to become living words in the world for God’s sake.”

My guess is that many may disagree that finding God in Nature and in all of God’s creation is enough. It may be that Christ and Church belong together. I have no knowledge of theology and not much understanding of religious practices outside my upbringing and my own spiritual path of six decades.

However, Barbara quotes Meister Eckhart: “The eye with which I look at God is the same eye with which God looks at me.”

Father John Foley, a theologian and Jesuit Priest who has contributed to liturgical music in the years following Vatican II, wrote my favorite hymn of all time.

The melody is beautiful, but the lyrics are what come to define my current resting place. I’m sure everyone knows the hymn, but I will end with the first verse here:

One bread, one body, one Lord of all

One cup of blessing which we bless

And we, though many, throughout the Earth

We are one body in this one Lord

Our lives depend on that kind of regular sustenance in the form that shapes us.

This is Andrea Elise for High Plains Radio Readers Book Club.


Andrea Elise
Andrea Elise

Andrea Elise was born in Sopron, Hungary and immigrated to the United States with her parents in 1956. She grew up in Amarillo, and attended Amarillo College before transferring to Duke University, where she earned a Bachelor’s degree in English Literature. She spent two years in the Peace Corps in South Korea, then obtained a Master’s degree in Counseling from West Texas A&M University.

Her interests include writing essays and poetry (she published a book of poems and haikus in 2023), partner dancing (if anyone is interested in East Coast swing or jitterbug dancing, please get in touch), playing mandolin, hiking, working out and reading. She lives in Amarillo with her very understanding husband, their two high-maintenance cats and several foster cats who somehow made her husband’s tool shed a resting place complete with room service.

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